What are the best ideas for a bridal shower for the “mature bride?”?
cmb9802 asked:
My father is getting married and I am the maid of honor, his fiance’s daughter is the matron of honor and together we are thinking of planning something for her mother. Since she is an older woman, a traditional shower may not be the best idea - what are some other ideas?
My father is getting married and I am the maid of honor, his fiance’s daughter is the matron of honor and together we are thinking of planning something for her mother. Since she is an older woman, a traditional shower may not be the best idea - what are some other ideas?
When couples remarry, they usually have all the basics that are typically given at a shower. In this case, some of the following ideas can work.
Depending on the amount of guests, you can book services at a local spa, or have someone come to your party. There are all different price ranges and services available. Manicure, pedicure, facial, massage, etc. You can also plan for a light lunch at your location. A great gift is a series of massages, or other service that the bride enjoys.
A gourmet cook theme is for the woman who either likes to cook, or wants to learn something new. You could have someone come and demonstrate a certain type of food, and give cooking tips. Gifts would be unique kitchen items.
A travel theme can be based around their honeymoon destination. Decorations, invitations, and food would all reinforce the theme. Your gift could be a needed travel item, or help with their honeymoon costs.
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You should plan a brunch at a fancy cafe. Many cafes have meeting rooms that you can also rent for small parties. That way it has the “mature bride” feel and you can still have the fun of celebrating.
La Bella’s got it right. Skip the traditional “shower” idea and simply meet for lunch or dinner. Perhaps you might want to give a little welcome to the family speech and small meaningful gift. Find out if she needs anything for the wedding (I.e. earrings, etc.). One idea could be a “family birthstone” ring or bracelet comprised of all of your birthstones. She can wear it for the wedding.
Congrats on your new family! It sounds like you all get along very well!
Best wishes!
DO you have a local cafe / restaurant that does a traditional afternoon tea? I went to a bridal shower for an older bride that was an afternoon tea and it was great. The invitation read “Hats, gloves and pearls optional” but everybody turned up wearing them. A lot of Mimosas were drunk, a lot of laughs were had, a great afternoon out and something a little different.
The party my MOH is planning for me could be perfect for her.
It’ll be a “wine and fondue” night where we’ll hang out, do presents, chat it up, and eventually watch some classic romantic films (think Casablanca and the like).
Could be right up her alley! Very classy and adult